Sex - Effects To Your Relationship
>> Wednesday, April 7, 2010
You are might be curious on doing sex with your girlfriend, but remember that things can dramatically change for you and your love, it is not for better but for worst. You might see people who do it as a happy person like in movies and seems like it is true love, remember that it is far different from reality. Why not wait for the right time where you can fully enjoy sex without worries and regrets? You might still be tempted and think that nothing will happen to you, and don't seem any hurting. But i just want to share this reality to all of you.
If you are a man, if you truly love the lady, you shouldn't ask her for a sex. If you are lady and you love your man, you shouldn't temp him to have sex with you. Maybe a man will say that "if you truly love me and you are willing to spend my life with me, have sex with me", remember that this words are simply selfish and after doing sex you will be wake up with realization. Kindly examine the four rude awakening:
The first one is "Distress", almost all who engaged in sex before marriage are experiencing regrets. The second one is "Distrust", trust will be lost and each partner will wonder who else has his or her partner had sex with? or Asking if she or he is still really a virgin. Next is "Disloyalty", after having sex, a man or woman would almost want to change partner and try another sex, this will gives disloyalty to the relationship. And lastly "Disillusionment", a girl, would have preferred someone who would protect her and not to use her. After having sex, your moral standard will almost ruin. So pollute your mind that sex before marriage is not fun as you seen in movies like a real love story, but sex is a disaster that you are inviting.
On the other hand, many man prefer ladies who didn't engaged in sex before marriage, because they want the trust and loyalty will stay. Now if you do those mistakes, all you have to do is readjust, but remember that you cannot return the past and you are one of the many unlucky person who will not fully enjoy life in marriage.
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this is 100 percent true, welcome those "one of the many unlucky person who will not fully enjoy life in marriage. " pinilit lang kasi ako magcomment dito eh
..nsa tao na un..
we all have different opinions and beliefs.
ansakit sakit met, manpapatama pero tua
masakit tanggapin pero totoo, at di na maibabalik ang panahon
Great Post and well-written, very emotional, too.. Day...
- GeneralHowitzer aka Sir Eugene
ah sir nagbababasa ka pala... salamat sa visit. extend my regards to sir ronie. :)
"if you truly love me and you are willing to spend my life with me, have sex with me"
.....stupid ang nagsasabi ng ganito sa gf.....
....kung talagang mahal ka nya he is willing to wait until u get married....
....loyalty and respect to one another are the most important thing in a relationship..... not SEX.....
iba na panahon kasi kesa noon.
You're right sir.
"Curiosity kills."
"He that is trusting in his own heart is stupid, but he that is walking in wisdom is the one that will escape." Proverbs 28:26
Experience is not always the best teacher. In fact, it is scriptural and wise to learn from the mistakes of others. Consider the mistakes of wise King Solomon when he listened to his heart. The result? He had 700 wives and he lost God's favor.
tma k sir.. pr0 sir i think n0t everyone is unf0rtunate because they engaged t0 premarital sex..
all they need perhaps is t0 accept what they had committed wholeheartedly and its aftermath..
of course, if you will be readjusted... at magsisisi ka sa ginawa mo, you are forgiven of course, and there is still a door for hapiness. pero pag hindi ka magsisisi at patuloy mo ginagawa... than thats the time that we can conclude that its worth no more.
to be honest, pre - marital sex really affects any relationship one way or another...Some say it eventually make relationships tear apart...But believe it or not, relationships could grow stronger in some cases....depending on how the couple handle their relationship...And for the "virginity" issue, some guys are open - minded naman about this...So what if they did this "thing" and eventually found that their girl is not a virgin anymore?...If you love a person, the virginity issue is not a big deal for me...Let's face it, we live in a quite liberated world now...But of course, this whole thing should be with the consensus of the both parties...And the aftermath?!...Well, its for the couple to decide based on the precautions they have took when they did it...(Woooo....habang comment naman ito....hahaha)...Interesting post here sir daycody... =)
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Deathchair (X'tian)
tama ka parang masaya kami pero parang plastikan na lang tapos ung pagiging sweet namin ay parang sex na lang habol sa isat isa. di na namin iniisip ung future namin, kung pinaguusapan man namin future parang bahala na.
yap...tama k nga sa article na to. hehe dapat mabasa to nung mga students doing this thing... heehe and have fear
cH3 :)
i do believe in that... sex can really make a change the level of trust between partners especially doing it because its a fad.
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